5 signs that someone truly loves you

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There's not one "right" or exact formula to be able to understand just how much someone loves you, there are definitely some habits and signals that they genuinely care about you, perhaps more than you give them credit for. Be on the lookout for these, and consider that maybe, there's more love in your life than you realize.

They Aren't Inconvenienced By Your Feelings
You know you've been extra complain-y lately, and maybe in a bad mood for a few days in a row at least. Yet, your significant other doesn't really see it that way, nor are they holding it against you. Sure, you had a bad night or two, but they aren't inconvenienced by your normal, natural range of emotions and experiences.

They're Loyal To You
It's not that they say they'll be loyal to you, but that they actually are. You could never dream of them being unfaithful or speaking ill of you behind your back — yet you don't realize what a rarity and privilege it is.

They Want To Change For You
While you can't change anybody (nor can you expect them to change because you want them to), when someone really loves you, they usually want to change themselves. They want to be better for you, to be the best version of themselves possible.

They Want To Commit, And Commit For Good
Even if prior to knowing you they were all up on the "I want to live my life sans a relationship" train, they have since gotten off at the next stop, and are firmly planting their feet in their relationship with you. They realize that they don't have to give up their personal freedom or happiness or autonomy for a relationship — but even if they did, you're worth it.

They Go Out Of Their Way To Do Small Things For You
They pick up your coffee or straighten up your apartment after you've fallen asleep. They grab the bill for your pizza slice or rub your neck when it hurts. They prove that love is, indeed, in the little things.

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