5 Reasons not to date a girl

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*To impress your friends: Some folks fall into the trap of dating a particular girl because they want to impress their friends. They go as far as making bets with about the prospects of getting a girl. They shy from dating the girl the kind of girl they really want because they think their friends would not be impressed, forgetting that they are the ones who would be in the relationship and not their friends.

*Looks: Beauty they say, is in the eyes of the beholder. Truthfully, no one hates beauty or having a beautiful girl as a wife or girlfriend, albeit the realities of a relationship go beyond looks and beauty. Beauty will fade with age. It is even worse with the rise of several make up trends that have the ability to completely change a person. In other words, look beyond facial beauty and body, when choosing a girl.

*Parental Pressure: This is more rampant in the African society. Parents tend to mount undue pressure on their children to get into relationships, especially as you get older and more comfortable in life. Howbeit, you could make a mistake if you start a relationship because of this pressure.

* Rebound: The loss of a relationship can be a very painful experience and it tends to affect both male and female alike. Forget all the superman thing that men try to form. News Flash: Men cry too. As a result of the pain of this loss, some men tend to try to go another relationship in order to medicate the pain, albeit this seldom works. The result of rebound most times is that you end up dating the girl you don't really need but just want for a moment of healing, after which you no more need her.

*Money: It's no surprise and its  no news that women are taking over the world. We have Theresa May in the UK, we've had Merkel in Germany, Hiliary Clinton of USA, Helen Johnson of Liberia etc, These days, women seem to gaining a lot of economic power and this has put some men on their toes. The evil trend which seems to be picking momentum is men trying to get into relationships with already established girls (who sometimes really love them), use them to gain some economic weight and dump them. Why in the world would a man want to do that ? It's a different if a girl who is more financially buoyant than you really loves you (and vice versa) and decides to settle down with you. Truthfully, we all know a lot of men in the society would find it hard settling down with a woman that is richer than them, except in the case of true love existing between both parties.

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