Better Than That Series (I)- 4 Reasons Why You Should Not Sleep Around

By -

Ever thought there was nothing wrong with sleeping around? Here are 4 reasons why it is a big error:

*You are not an animal: Animals usually don't hv a particular place they mate and they don't get married a male animal just seeks a female animal and sleeps with her..Same applies to the femal animals. In other words, sleeping around is characteristic of animals. Have you ever asked yourself why people who sleep around are referred to as dogs? Are you animal? Your attitude to having sex best answers the question.

*You Could Get Infected with STD: This is an unarguable truth. People who sleep around run the risk of getting infected by a sexually transmitted disease.

*Spending of money foolishly: Come to think of it, the money you spend getting people to sleep with you could have been put to better use. Similarly, in the event of STD moneyhas to be spent to get pills that would help you treat the disease. Do you really have to spend like this?

*It Adds No Value To You: Take it or leave it, sleeping around adds no value to your life. People who sleep around tend to also be engaged in another social vices. No organization gives an award for the best pervert. So why would you wanna continue in something that brings more good than bad
 
We live in a world where people (especially guys) proudly talk about how they've slept with this girl and that girl. As fas as I'm concerned it is an act of immaturity, indiscretion, imprudence and folly to be proud of such an adventure. Some foolish ones are even bold enough to let it out on social media- may they receive sense!

You should know that you are better than that. Once a person is addicted to sleeping around, it takes the grace of God to stop that habit. Incase you are reading this piece and you're guilty of this, no one is judging you but I must let you know the truth. However, you can gradually stop this bad habit with persistent and consistent efforts backed up by God's Grace.

You are better than that.

Remain Blessed and Highly Favoured!!!

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Are you all in

By -
Image
Good Evening ! God has a stimulus package. If you put God first, He will put you first (Matthew 6:33). It is going to cost you everything to the do the things that God has called you to do. If you can bear the weight of your cross, He will bear the weight of your crown (Luke 9:23). Trust Him with your destiny! He has something divine in store for you that is beyond all that you can imagine or think (Ephesians 1:4). There is no plan that you can layout for yourself that surpasses the plans God has for you (Proverbs 3:5-6). God will put you in a situation where your faith is tested. You may only see a glimpse of the situation and wonder why you are there, but you have to give everything to it (Hebrews 11:6). Be humble, and fear the Lord as there is indeed honor and a reward in your reverence for Him (Proverbs 22:4). What have you sought the Lord for in your personal time of prayer and devotion? What is it that He has promised you? Put Him first in all things, and persevere - stay in His
Read more

Beware of The Green Eyed Monster

By -
Envy has no place here.         Never before have we had such immediate access into each other’s lives.  While the connections we strengthen through social media are meaningful, there is something to watch out for: envy.  It is said that “Jealousy comes from counting others’ blessings instead of our own.” Many of us feel genuine gratitude as we get to catch up with our friends and family’s pictures, growth and accomplishments on social media, and elsewhere.  But, too often we allow thoughts of comparison and hints of envy to creep in as well. Constant comparison is envy’s gateway.  Have you found yourself looking at someone’s anniversary pictures and wishing your relationship was as solid?  Have you and your wife struggled with infertility only to be saddened by constant pictures of beautiful, thriving babies?  Shakespeare wrote, “Oh beware...of jealousy!  It is the green-eyed monster which doth mock.”  Feelings of jealousy and envy must be healed; they are not worthy of our pea
Read more

4 Ways To Identify Your Strengths

By -
Image
We’ve all been asked the question: What are your strengths? If it catches you off guard, then it's time to take personal inventory. Your strengths are the foundation of your success. It's important to know which qualities make you stand out. Not only is being aware of your strengths positive for an employer, it also works in your favor. The more hours per day adults believe they use their strengths, reports Gallup, the more likely they are to note having ample energy, feeling well-rested, being happy, smiling or laughing a lot, learning something interesting and being treated with respect. In short, utilizing our strenghts make just about everything better. If you're unsure how to start unlocking your strengths, follow these four tips. 1. What Makes You You? Think about your personal and professional experiences. How have you dealt with high-pressure situations? You’re bound to think of at least three strengths. Not only will you be able to articulate your strengths, y
Read more