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As we draw the curtain on 2017, I've taken time to reflect on this year, vis-a-vis my successes (gains) and failures (mistakes). This has led to me to think through what hs been my motivation through the months. Words they say, never fade away. They last a lifetime. Even the Holy Bible says heaven and earth will pass away but God's word will remain the same. Against this backdrop, I'll like to share a few quotes that have kept me going and focused as well as helped overcome certain obstacles I've had to face. These few positive and motivational quotes have been my inspiration and have guided as well as guarded my thoughts over the years. Sharing they say is caring. Here are a few life quotes that would be helpful to you in 2018; *The true measure of a man's character is what you do when you think you would never be found out. *You are most likely to act yourself into feeling than feel yourself into action.  *A life in which anything goes will ultimately be a l...

Change can sometimes come into our lives at the most unexpected moments. We may fear it, we may run from it, but when things change in our lives the opportunities for growth are immediate. We have only to look at the gorgeous Irrawaddy dolphins of Southeast Asia to understand the power in adapting to our circumstances. The dolphins adapted their hunting skills to combat a dwindling food supply. Instead of allowing their circumstances to be their demise, they found a new way to survive. They learned to aid local fishermen in order to find food.  The dolphins get first pick of the catch in exchange for driving schools of fish into their nets. When faced with changes that we cannot control, we have the same opportunity to adapt, to find a way forward. Let’s not spend precious time describing the water as we drown.  Instead, fight to stay afloat. Fighting against the unexpected changes depletes us; we live with power when we find our flow. Research shows that those who ...

You’ve probably heard a lot of talk about limiting beliefs and how they hold you back from doing the things you want the most. Most people have a lot of limiting beliefs that affect their career, health, and current relationships negatively. But when it comes to single people who are looking for love, having their lives affected negatively is an understatement. Because our relationships affect every area of our lives, it’s important to get rid of the limiting beliefs that hold us back from finding the perfect person or having a great relationship. I see a lot of common limiting beliefs on Twitter and Facebook. I see them in the comment sections on popular dating blogs. I even hear them from my friends and their friends. And, it seems like they are getting stronger and stronger and making it really hard for single people to find real love. If you are single and want to find real love – the kind that makes you happy for the rest of your life – then you need to de...

Regret is all about being sorry for yourself because of something you did, or because of something you did not do. Over 90% of us have a major regret in our lives.  In fact, according to a study conducted by professors at Carnegie Mellon University, regret is the second most frequently experienced emotion, only after love. Studies found that the top five regrets that people experience are about: romance, family, education, career and finance. Regret chains us to the past; we are stuck questioning all that we could have done differently. Yet, the path you took was not a mistake; the rough road polished and refined you. In fact, we will escape the hell of regret through two important steps: learning from the mistake and taking powerful action .  Mistakes set us on a course to change our lives. The hard-won knowledge ensures that we will take our time when making important decisions in the future. Realize that you have the power to change anything that robs you of your peace. N...

Good Morning! If you are THAT frustrated with your life and refuse to change, you will always be where you’ve always been! It is hard to be happy for others when you feel as though you are living in hell, but you have to change the narrative over your situation (Colossians 3:8)! You have to seek the Lord and find yourself in an intimate place with Him so you can hear his voice - Pray without ceasing (1 Thessalonians 5:17)! Have you found yourself in a position you wanted, but now realize you didn’t truly want the responsibilities that come along with it? You are not in this place by happenstance (Ecclesiastes 3:1-8)! Identify what YOU must change so that you are not repeating this lesson! You have to stop letting the enemy sit you in the corner, and beg for what is yours! Cry out to God - there is a holler that will make Him stand still! God is getting ready to bring you out, but not before you kill that root of bitterness you are harboring (Hebrews 12:15) and get what he h...

Deep words....